Thursday, 16 February 2017

True Or False: Do Women Always Want To Be Friends First?

Men usually know about the friend-zone – a fictional and dreaded place where no man wants to be. Many of you reading this now probably know how difficult it is to go past the friend-zone when you are already there. So, we ask: do women always want to be friends first? And is there any way to escape being in the friend-zone?

Friends First, And Then Love Comes After?

In an attempt to understand women’s psyche better, we will answer this question today without beating around the bush. If a female tells you that she wants to be friends first, it could mean that she needs more time to size you up.

What It Means To Be Friends First

Before we go any further, here’s a good reminder: “I just want to be friends” is different from “I want to be friends first”. Just friends mean that you’re simply just friends. It’s like she sees you as a brother.

But, if she wants to be friends at the beginning, it means that she wants to get to know you and see if she can truly trust you with her heart. You have to practice active listening when she’s talking about stuff like this because you don’t want to interchange what she means.

If she tells you that she just wants to be buddies, I’m sorry man, you’ve been friend-zoned.

Can You Escape?

Unfortunately, once you’re in the friend-zone, she doesn’t view you that way. You may be good-looking, and your woman friend may agree, but she will not look at you as a lover.

It’s too bad, but there are rare cases where men do go past this zone and become more than just a friend.  Unfortunately, they haven’t shared their escape plans with the world yet. It’s a sensitive situation because you could potentially end the friendship when you tell her the truth.

The Best Advice For Situations Like These

If a woman tells you that she wants to get to know you and be buddies with you first, the romantic potential is there. Believe it or not, you can speed things up by agreeing with her. The more she gets to know you, the more she will fall for you. But, if she tells you that she wants to be just friends, it’s time to move forward and meet other women.

Did you find this dating advice helpful? We have more on the blog so make sure to check those out.

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Monday, 13 February 2017

Easiest Tips For Writing Love Messages On Valentine’s

Valentine’s Day is the best day to profess your love to someone you’re interested in. If you’re already in a relationship, it’s also a great day to affirm your feelings for the person you are with. You can do this in different ways, but the classic way of doing it would be to write love messages.

The Easiest Way To Compose Love Messages

If your special someone is miles away, you can opt to write a message down on paper to make it more classic and romantic, or you can simply send her a digital message so she can read it in time for Valentine’s. Whichever way you choose, the most important thing is the content of your message. So how do you compose a message that will leave your partner or future partner weak in the knees?

Tip #1: Identify Your Purpose

The first thing you do is define your message’s purpose. Is it to state your love for the first time or to confirm what she already knows? This will be your starting point.

Tip #2: Feel Out The Right Moment

If you’re confessing your feelings, you need to think whether it is the right time to do so. Valentine’s Day is perfect, but is the timing right? Or, is it too early? You have to determine this first because, sometimes, it’s better to take things slow. Your lady might prefer it too.

Tip #3: There’s Nothing Wrong With Google-ing Sample Letters

If you all signs are green, it’s time to start composing your letter. But, how do you open it and then finish it? To get some inspiration, you can Google sample romantic letters, and then find the one sample that fits your situation, or that contains what you want to say.

Of course, you do not want to copy it word for word, but the next thing you should do is edit the sample message and make it more personal.

Tip #4: Do Not Bother With Shakespearean Lingo

Shakespear had a way with words, but it does not mean that you should use the same words he did. Your love messages or message doesn’t have to be complicated. It can be simple, everyday English and it can still be romantic as long as you capture the essence of what you want to say.

Tip #5: Proofread Your Letter

The biggest mistake you can make in writing love messages is if you skip proofreading them. You have to put your best foot forward, and this means no grammatical errors, spelling mistakes and other sentence errors. Read your message once, twice and then re-write if you need to.

Whether you’re going to write your love message in an email or a letter, it won’t matter if you’ve poured your heart into it. Remember to look for inspiration and make your message personal. For more tips on dating and relationships, you can check out more posts from the blog.

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Thursday, 9 February 2017

Reasons Why Long Distance Relationships Are Worth It

Long distance relationships are hard; everyone knows that. But, when two people care for each other so much that they are willing to go through obstacles to be together, it is something that can be admired in a couple. In the long run, long distance relationships may not be all that bad.

Proof Long Distance Relationships Are Worth The Wait

We are all used to imagining people in long distance relationships as lonely individuals who always stay at home and wait in front of the computer for their partner, but that is not the case at all. Here are situations that prove being in a long distance relationship could be worth the wait:

Meetings Are Passionate

The distance and the longing are hard, but the couple is rewarded every time they see each other. Whenever a long distance couple comes together, passion, fire and excitement are always present. So, maybe distance does make the heart grow fonder.

Time Becomes Valuable

In long distance relationships, time is always an important element. In regular relationships, we have to admit that we sometimes take for granted the time we can spend with the person we love.

There is no “taking for granted” when it comes to time in long distance relationships. It’s always either too long, because of the waiting, or too short, because there isn’t enough of it when the couple is together.

Long Distance Relationships Weed Out Shallow Relationships

What are shallow relationships? These are relationships that are merely based on a physical connection. Common sense will tell all of us that, while physical relationships are fun and exciting, these kinds of relationships get old fast. There is, of course, a physical element in relationships where couples do not live in the same state, city or country, but it is not the main focus of the relationship.

These are just three scenarios, but there’s more to long distance relationships than meets the eye and the imagination. We may not think that long distance couples are happy or even that being in a long distance relationship is worth it, but you can learn a lot from being away from the person you love. These lessons can be the key to your successful relationship despite the distance.

Do you still think being in a long distance relationship is a waste of time? Hopefully, not. We have more dating and relationship tips for you on the blog.

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Monday, 6 February 2017

Uncommon Valentine’s Day Flowers You Should Get Her

Valentine’s day is fast approaching. Whenever men cannot figure out what to get their wives or girlfriends, the go-to gift would be  flowers. Any girl would appreciate whatever you give her on Valentine’s Day, but giving Valentine’s Day flowers is a no-brainer. If you want to show your lady how much you care for her, you have to put some effort into it. You know what this means, right? NO red roses this Valentine’s.

Valentine’s Day Flowers Aside From Roses

Don’t get us wrong because red roses are classics. They are the universal representation of love when it comes to flowers. When you give someone roses, it means that your love is passionate. You have to admit that roses make a romantic Valentine’s Day gift, but everyone’s going to do the same thing. So what flowers should you give?

Gerbera Daisies

Uncommon Valentine's Day Flowers You Should Get Her | Gerbera Dasies

Gerbera daisies may look simple, but they are not your usual Valentine’s Day flowers. That’s what makes them so different and unique. They look like small sunflowers in various colours. They should be enough to brighten anyone’s day. Instead of just gerbera daisies, try mixing them with orange roses to signify your sweetness and thoughtfulness.

Casa Blanca Lily

Uncommon Valentine's Day Flowers You Should Get Her | Lily

Casa Blanca lilies look vintage. The flower is big and star-shaped. They are also called white lilies, and they signify old school romance. They’re also great flower options if you want to pop the big question.


Uncommon Valentine's Day Flowers You Should Get Her | Carnations

Carnations are beautiful. When they bloom, they look like a flamenco dancer’s skirt. They’re also very valentine-friendly because, commonly, carnations come in pink and red. When you give your lady a carnation, it means that you are in love with her and are fascinated by her complexity.

You also don’t have to stick to just these flowers. If you get stuck, what you can do is ask a florist to make a bouquet for you. Tell the florist the message that you want to tell your lady and he or she will do the picking for you. It’s only once a year that Valentine’s Day comes, so it’s your chance to show your special someone that they matter in your life.

If you’re in a long-distance relationship, remember that you can send flowers to the woman you love through specific services offered on your dating website. Asian Date, for example, has a feature that allows you to pick flowers to be sent to any Asian Date lady you fancy.

For more dating, online dating and relationship tips, check out more posts from the blog.

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